The Ranting/Debate Thread

[Sinfulwolf]

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Bisexuals can still have a preference. It's very rare to see someone who likes men or women exactly 50/50.

 

[Pheonix Alugere]

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I think bi covers the whole spectrum from hetero to homo.

 

[garfield751]

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i think bi means that they just dont really care if its male or female

 

[Chibichibi]

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Most bisexuals do have a preference, however there are some (at least that I've met) that really just don't care either way.

Me, I have a preference for men, but that doesn't mean I don't get lonely for a soft yummy woman. le-sigh

 

[Games Dude]

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Me, I have a preference for men, but that doesn't mean I don't get lonely for a soft yummy woman. le-sigh

Yes, but however unfairly it is more socially acceptable for females to be bi than men which makes more women open about it and which ultimately makes it seem like only girls are allowed to be bi which makes it sexist to call someone bi which makes it even more awkward and socially inacceptable to mention it in public which makes it an even more confusing and commonly avoided topic, throwing it into the dark and essentially putting it in a little chest marked "do not read" and that just makes more people who don't know about bi and what it is and what it means curious which means more heated debate and arguments and problems in the long run ---
*common sense kicks logic in the stomach*
"Shut up damn you! I've had enough of your damn logic!" (5 bucks if you get the reference)

Wait... what just happened? HOLY CRAP I RANTED. I apologize. Especially if you read that. All of it.

/rant.

P.S. What was I talkin about in the first place...?

 

[ToxicShock]

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Yeah I agree, I'd probably be bi, if that didn't just attract gay dudes haha

 

[Games Dude]

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waitaminute...

you understood me?! m...m..my god...

But anyway I think I might be bi, but I'm honestly not sure at the moment...

Im generally hetero, but sometimes I get curious....

/more personal info then I've ever revealed to anyone before

(I get the feelin I'ma regret this one...)

 

[Asmodean]

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"Shut up damn you! I've had enough of your damn logic!" (5 bucks if you get the reference)

Take your logic and go to bed!
I can't!!
Why NOT?
I sleep on the couch.

R.I.P George Carlin... Your mind and wit will be greatly missed.

 

[ToxicShock]

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/more personal info then I've ever revealed to anyone before

Same here, who cares, it's mostly anonymous.

I mean, it partially came from a strapon curiosity, which kind of built to a curiosity/fetish, and after much deliberation on "well if I can stand a strapon in my ass, why couldnt it be a penis" I had no decent logical answer for that.

Either way, it's still ranked up their with my curiosity/fetish of cunnilingus, so I doubt gay is the answer here.

 

[Chibichibi]

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Being curious doesn't really make you Bi though. I think lots of people go through sort of an ambisexual stage before they settle into what really makes them tick.

My whole beef with the issue is how sex is such a taboo topic. I mean, it's a natural function, people need to learn how to be safe, not only for hetero couples but for the homosexual ones as well, rather than shoving it into a closet marked "Do not open"

 

[ToxicShock]

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Well I've had some experimentation on myself, but let's be honest, that's not really the same thing.

But yeah, curiosity is all I have to go on. I've been asexual in a way (probably just the social definition of it, not a scientific one) and even with a chosen sexuality, I still put no effort into trying anything with anyone. I take your advice of not letting it be a big deal, but run in the opposite direction of it, going, "Sex? Ehh, I'm already in a bed? .. why wouldn't I just sleep then?" I have no focus on it, and it's not even a fear of failure, it's just a can't be bothered to try, cuz I feel like there's not much to actually gain.

I'm the opposite of most guys I know. They all sleep around a shitload and need a serious relationship, if not just for a month, to sort of anchor them down in some way. I actually need a one night stand or something like that, but it won't happen cuz I can't imagine myself doing something like that, just not that type of guy.
At least, that's my own theory, but then again, who's more objectionable on a personal matter than one's self.

 

[Games Dude]

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hmm.. well I've always wondered...

anyway before I rip my heart out of my chest, cook it like a turkey and serve it on a golden platter, lets change the subject to

It's damned unfair that girls are more socially acceptable as bi, simply because it's sxual discrimination. Whether I'm bi or not doesn't matter, sexism and racism and all kinds of discrimination are against my morals.

I judge each person by who I find them to be, AFTER I get to know them some, and I treat no-one differently based on who they are (except obviously my friends [more like friend but you get the point] because I like them especially.) This is how I avoid discrimination, and have lived as such my whole life. It has worked thus far.

/rant

damn I'm on a roll tonight...

EDIT:

@ Chibi: well if you think about it I could just be unsure, but I never liked fem. masturbation porn/hentai simply because there was no cock. I seem to always be more turned on by some sort of cock doing penetration. Be it futa, tentacles or consentual, it has t o be a real cock of some sort or I just don't like it as much. Part of why I'm not sure...

@ Toxic: yea I was like that, but then I started putting some thought into it... and the more I wonder the more curious and confused and convinced that I'm bi I get. At this point I think I'm about 70% Hetero, 30% Gay.

That is IF I had to put a number on it.

Like I just did.

Yea...

 

[Chibichibi]

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You're the psych major, you figure your sexuality out. xD

But I'm leaning towards the asexual side for you. Maybe you just haven't figured yourself out. I dunno.

Me? I'm fairly hypersexual. I read somewhere that being hypersexual was a symptom of childhood rape. Well that's one thing I'm a statistic for.

 

[ToxicShock]

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damn I'm on a roll tonight...

Call him butter, cuz he's melting between my thighs.
.... that's probably not the expression.

I understand the point on sexism/discrimination and I'd go into that with you right now, but I'm just so fucking physically and mentally sapped right now, it'd practically be incoherent babble. But yeah, somehow I tend to make extreme jumps between jaded cynicism and hopeful idealism, so I'd make a perfect devils advocate to whatever. I see realism being that discrimination will always exist and most peoples attempts to fix it are actually just attempts to hide it which only further the problem, while the idealistic side of me sees general equality, even if it's not in all ways, it should still be somewhat balanced and can't understand why people can't be nondiscriminant. I'd like to get more specific, but like I said... babble

And hypersexual? What's that? Is that prefix more directed towards frequency than focus/direction?

 

[Games Dude]

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lol. Well somehow I'm not that surprised. Don't ask me why because I have no fucking clue. One question tough, since when was I a psych major? My greatest psychiatric achievement to date is (with my parents' help god bless them) bring myself out of a depression without medication, but I don't really like talking about it. My mom keeps telling me that it's amazing I managed not to try to change who I was throughout it, but I really didn't find being me that hard. Kindof a "you may hate me and I may hate myself because you hate me, but I'm stuck with me so I aint gonna change myself for you. Wouldn't work anyway." My mom was always so impressed though...

/rant AGAIN OMG.

SOMEBODY GET ME SOME CHLOROFORM. I SHOULD HAVE BEEN ASLEEP AN HOUR AGO ANYWAY. >.>

 

[ToxicShock]

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One question tough, since when was I a psych major?

Err, that'd be me.


I wish I was asleep, i'm sore and hurt and i should either be passed out on a couch or lounging in a bath of ice

 

[Chibichibi]

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It's the new term for being a Nympho.

Hypersexuality is the desire to engage in human sexual behavior at a level high enough to be considered clinically significant.

God Bless Wiki.

 

[Games Dude]

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HEI GUIS I CAN POST PICSHURZ 2

EDIT: Erm...... sorry. ADHD is problematic... causes constant rants, random retardedness... bad typos that get fixed about 20 seconds later... yep. Life is fun. Expecially when tired.
*Yawn*

 

[ToxicShock]

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Would hypersexuality immediately be assumed to include pansexuality? Or can that be a hypersexual who is purely hetero-focused or homo-focused

 

[Chibichibi]

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Would hypersexuality immediately be assumed to include pansexuality? Or can that be a hypersexual who is purely hetero-focused or homo-focused

I'm fairly certain it's just obsessing over sex no matter what you're interested in.