Re: The Ranting/Debate Thread
Conversation my friends and I were having wound up on the subject of rape vs murder.
I bowed out then, but I couldn't stop thinking about it.
Rape vs. Murder..... I've never been raped nor have I ever (to my knowledge) known anyone who was raped, so I don't know how deep the mental scars go.
I've also never known (to my knowledge) anyone who was murdered.
I mean, I can see how each could be worse than the other, it really depends on your viewpoint is the problem.
Gah. I keep trying to sit here and come up with arguments for each, but I keep feeling like a total ass-clown no matter which way I go. It's difficult to really debate which is worse than the other for me, because it really comes down to human emotion in the end. I mean, if I say murder is worse than rape, that little guy in my head says, "Nice going, dummy. Now we just sit back and wait for the rape victims or people who have known rape victims to come around and say 'oh, so you'd LIKE to be raped? IS THAT IT?'" On the other side of the argument, if I were to say that rape is worse than murder, the little guy in my head says, "Oh, you're a fucking genius. Now you get to have your in-box flooded with people who have had loved ones murdered, saying 'How'd you like it if I murdered YOUR mom, HUH?'"
Now, the logical, rational part of my brain KNOWS nobody here would do that, because we're all rational and intelligent people. Nobody here would feel that I was trying to belittle rape or murder, and would understand that, yes, I know that each of them is a horrible, horrible thing and neither should happen to anyone. Still, as I said before, I just feel like a total ass-clown for trying to debate between the two, because they BOTH are fucking horrible in their own right.
On the one hand, we have rape. It mentally scars the victim for life, and can lead to a wide range of problems, from just mistrusting others, all the way to suicide.
On the other hand, murder. The victim has been ripped from the lives of people who care about him/her suddenly, and now there's a hole in their lives.
I mean, honestly, just thinking about it here and now, perhaps the punishment for them both should be the same.